Posts Tagged ‘loneliness’

With a little help from my friends …

So if you have read some of my blog posts before, especially on my own site, you will have no doubt realised that there have been many occasions in my life where times have been tough and I have been left reeling. However, I am a strong believer in no matter what life deals you, if you get knocked down, you dust yourself off and bounce right back again, but this time not only stronger but also smarter because you learn from that episode in your life.

I know so many people who have gone through all kinds of challenges within their lives and they still keep fighting and smiling. So, why is it that when people receive knocks and obstacles within their business lives, they often crumble at the first sign of difficulty? Having gone through personal and professional difficulties, I believe I know the answer.

Some things to think about before setting up a new business

 

Here are some of the things I tell people who come to me and say they have an idea for a new business or are just setting up in business for themselves for the first time.

 

  1. Talk to an accountant/ business advisor and get some advice about your business idea. Is it realistic? Is it viable? Don’t just ask family and friends.
  2. decide what form you want the business to take ltd/ llp/ soletrader

How to create SUSTAINABLE CHANGE in your future (Part 1 of 2)

“How can you say that the sky’s the limit when there are footprints on the moon?”

 This post is by Brian Light

                                                                  

YOUR FUTURE – “know where you what to go”

As the boss of you and the boss of your company you are responsible for your future therefore. .

  • Have a massive dream 
    Be very, very clear what the outcome of that dream should be.
  • Focus on what you want not what you don’t want
    This is not merely positive thinking.

If you focus on what you want you’ll move towards it and if you focus on what you don’t want then you’ll move towards that.

  • Reveal your biggest ambitions to a stranger 
    Why? . . . Research from Warwick Business School shows that:
    • If you make a commitment to yourself you have an [8%] chance of seeing it through
    • If you make a commitment to a loved-one it climbs to [18%]
    • If you make a commitment to a stranger, or a business colleague or even a COACH that you don’t see each and every day it soars to a massive [79%]

 

YOUR FUTURE – “go SECURE it”

Coaching provides the space and environment to define WHERE YOU WANT TO GO and explore the way you are NOW (Part 1), provide the tools to enable you to MAKE THE CHANGE and help you DO IT (Part 2) IT

The results of your changed thinking will lead to new behaviours, both in and outside the work environment, and will impact on you and those around you to form the foundation of a new beginning.

The S.E.C.U.R.E. model is the first Coaching Model that provides the important focus, and ongoing support, for you to achieve your vision of your future.

It will support and challenge you through the programme helping you to consider:

 

S tatement:                               What is your real goal expressed in the present and positive tense?

E vidence:                                   How will you know you have achieved your goal?

C ontrol:                                      Is the goal within your control to initiate and maintain it?

U nderstand:                             What are the costs and benefits of reaching your goal?

R esources:                                What resources do you have and what do you need to find?

E xecution:                 When will start and when will you reach success?

 

Your Goals/Outcomes will remain just Dreams if you don’t ‘Plan to Change’.  The SECURE model is the beginning of your journey to change. 

 

The benefits of outsourcing in a small business

This post is by Philippa Bowen

Making the decision to outsource a service, a product, or a process can be the best thing you ever do for your business. It can save you money, people power and physical resources. If you are a small business and are trying to run your company single handed then outsourcing will undoubtedly make the job easier. Well that has always been my opinion and is what I say to business owners when I get asked this question. I also recommend that businesses get into the habit of outsourcing as soon as possible in life of the business. Why?

Community or Loneliness?

This post is by Ruth Thirtle

 

 

One of the biggest issues that people can face when they start working for themselves is loneliness. Having the choice to not have to work with the people we don’t like or respect may seem like a positive reason to strike out on our own but the loneliness can still influence us. For me, the time that this hits home is Christmas. When I worked in corporate we had hundreds of people at our Christmas party or dozens out for a cruise on Sydney Harbour (just had to drop that in there!!). Taking myself out for Christmas lunch and telling cracker jokes to myself just does not have the same appeal.